Adulthood has been identified to be the happiest life stage there is. It encompasses different exciting but solvable life challenges, lots and lots of opportunities for a far better life if your life is already at its good side, and of course, the kind of happiness marriage offers. Yes, not everyone is happy with their marriages, but that is because they either made a wrong choice of spouse, or rushed into things with their heads only an inch above water. For those who have been happily married for a long time, who still have marriage-related problems but are not big enough to make the earth shake, the presentation of this love either has become stale or is not being done anywhere. This is not because love is not present anymore, it is; it is just that it has reached the time where its mere presentation has become neglected. Mean It. If you love your husband or wife, do not just say or show affection just to make him or her shut up. You have to actually mean it. Love is not something to toy around and play with. It is a serious emotion and must be taken seriously, how ever comedic your life as a couple could be. Memos Especially for those who have been married for a very long time, and you would know who these people are if you knew that their youngest kid, among seven, has just graduated high school, both of them have to remind each other regarding their love for each other. It is not that they have purposefully forgotten to show each other their love; it is just that, as the whole world knows, or at least those who have been finely educated, age brings bad effects to the memories of people. As people grow older, a specific center in the brain starts to tone down its maximum functioning, and people start forgetting. Strengthening The Bond Showing your husband or wife that you love him or her strengthens the compactness of your relationship as husband and wife. Before you know it, you would be able to bring back your early days as a couple, with all those bluebirds chirping aimlessly in the background and the sunset doing its thing to set the perfect sepia moment. Here are tips for you to be able to show your husband or wife just how much you love him or her. Speak Out Loud. It is as simple as saying the words straight out. If you love your honey so much, then do this, “Honey, I love you so much”. It is that simple. You do not have to complicate your life, giving yourself problems, which are not really problems at all. For maximum effects, tell this to your honey at least once a day. And remember, that when you do say these words, you have to really mean them. You do not just blurt them out with your eyes still locked to Wheel of Fortune. Look him or her in the eyes and speak these wonderful three words with meaning. In A Surprise When they least expect it, the way that happens with rightly-working surprises, hug your husband or wife. This will bring the blood to your cheeks. But do not get alarmed, what this means is simply, the kind of warmth and love this gesture brings will make your husband or wife blush. If you want to go even beyond that, then give your husband or wife a surprise kiss. If he or she loves a surprise hug, he or she will absolutely and most definitely love a surprise kiss. Who would not, right? Everybody loves surprises, well good and happy ones anyway. And everybody also loves to be hugged and kissed, especially if the other person who does it is someone who has such a big and strong meaning in his or her life. Smile. Smile is very important in everyday living. You go to work; you have to put a smile on your face, because if you do not, it will put a frown on your boss’s face, and a grimace on your officemates’ faces. So just think about it, if smiling does this much to people you hardly know, what more with someone you have promised your faithful life to? You might be happy with the way your relationship as a married couple is going, and this happiness is evident in how you regard your family and how you treat your spouse. But you can’t just do these stuff without having the most distinguishing characteristic to really declare that a person is happy.
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Define Love For A Husband/Wife
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